How can I become hot? (Picture Included)?
Posted on February 28th, 2010 by admin
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My boyfriend dumped me cuz I’m not hot and fat and ugly and now I decided I want to become hot and not cute like everyone always says I am. Cute is for little kids and i’m 13 not 3. How can I become hot? SHould I lose weight? (I know my outfit kinda sucks in that picture)
I checked out your picture on facebook and guess what? You have one of the most beautiful heads of hair I have ever seen. No one expects a 13 year old to be hot. Thirteen year olds should be on their way to becoming beautiful. The key to that is on the inside and on the outside. Believe me, you have plenty of dating years coming up around the corner. Yes, you will meet more losers like your ex-boyfriend, but you will also meet really good guys too. Remember, your self-worth as to come from YOU not the people around you. Just take of yourself – eat healthy (don’t diet) – you are a healthy weight for you size and try to do something active you enjoy everyday. As for getting "hot," everyone has one feature that is her "best feature." Whether it be your eyes or your hair or your legs, always play up that feature.
March 1st, 2010 at 1:01 am
There is no hope, im sorry.
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March 1st, 2010 at 1:33 am
Don’t let a loser like that dictate who you are. Trust me, there are better guys out there one who will like you for you and not by how hot you are. Cus guys like that will end up pathetically alone and sad later in life cus people will realize he is a jerk.
Plus you are beautiful (being beautiful is better than being hot please believe that) and not fat!
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March 1st, 2010 at 1:58 am
If everyone says you’re cute, then rest assured you’re not fat and ugly. Maybe your boyfriend is just no good. Don’t let him get you down. Cute is really neutral to age, I’ve heard 20 year old guys referred to as cute, I think Gael Garcia Bernal is cute and he’s older than I am (I’m 29). So, cute is not just for little kids. If you’re not happy with how you look and lack self esteem… take up marcial arts. It was the best thing I ever did for myself emotionally, I lost a lot of weight and stopped having low self esteem. It’s a lot better for losing weight than going to some crummy gym. Or maybe your parents could invest in some other sport, like riding lessons, that builds confidence bc you have to learn to control a huge animal… or you could play basketball or soccer to lose weight.
As far as not liking your look maybe a makeover would help. I would ask the people at the Estee lauder counter if you can make an appointment for a makeover. Just buy a product or two as a courtesy and say you want to learn how to use their products.
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March 1st, 2010 at 2:16 am
usually around that age kids go through an awkward stage…when i was your age i was chubby and had a lot of zits, crooked teeth, etc. i’ve thinned out, visited the dermatologist a few times and got braces!! i just grew out of it and eventually you will too, it just takes time. don’t worry about it!
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March 1st, 2010 at 2:48 am
First of all, do not stump to the level of thinking that you’re ugly. Everyone has potential in the eyes of the right person.
But nonetheless, I am glad to hear that you are motivated to do something rather than mope around. To start off, you can benefit greatly by doing a 30 minute walk/jog everyday.
And just to note, I don’t think you’re fat.
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March 1st, 2010 at 3:30 am
Omg you are so beautiful.. Do you know how many girls would kill to be as pretty and tan as you are.. I am a very pale girl and trust me its not the best. Seriously, you will naturally get hot like in four or five years. Cheekbones will come in and all that stuff. If you put makeup on at 13 it just looks like your trying too hard and thats unattractive. Just wait and the beauty will come…
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March 1st, 2010 at 4:07 am
I checked out your picture on facebook and guess what? You have one of the most beautiful heads of hair I have ever seen. No one expects a 13 year old to be hot. Thirteen year olds should be on their way to becoming beautiful. The key to that is on the inside and on the outside. Believe me, you have plenty of dating years coming up around the corner. Yes, you will meet more losers like your ex-boyfriend, but you will also meet really good guys too. Remember, your self-worth as to come from YOU not the people around you. Just take of yourself – eat healthy (don’t diet) – you are a healthy weight for you size and try to do something active you enjoy everyday. As for getting "hot," everyone has one feature that is her "best feature." Whether it be your eyes or your hair or your legs, always play up that feature.
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