I sent my boyfriend a sexy picture when i was drunk, but now he would stop going on about it?
Posted on February 6th, 2010 by admin
Last night i was drunk and sent my boyfriend a picture of my boobs but i had a bra on. But now he’s like "Send me some more!" and its really starting to get annoying. I dont wan to dump him over it and he is a really good guy.
How should i handle this?
Tell him no..
You don’t feel comfortable in doing it..
It was a mistake the first time..
(And you need to delete that picture off his phone in case of anything for instance if you break up or if you want to run for ms. america or something)
You never know.. those things always come back to haunt you..
February 7th, 2010 at 2:49 am
just tell him to shut up about it and you might consider doing it again.
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February 7th, 2010 at 3:25 am
It’s like giving a puppy a treat and then telling him he can’t have any more. Why’d you do it in the first place? He’s your boyfriend, if you have to get drunk to do it again why not?
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February 7th, 2010 at 3:49 am
Men are mostly turned on by seeing stuff. Don`t be surprised that he wants more especially if your boobs are pretty
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February 7th, 2010 at 4:01 am
just say it was a one time thing and if he keeps asking dump him…
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February 7th, 2010 at 4:12 am
duh… now you know why people are so stupid when they drink. now you have to pay the consequences of your actions.
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February 7th, 2010 at 4:32 am
Tell him no..
You don’t feel comfortable in doing it..
It was a mistake the first time..
(And you need to delete that picture off his phone in case of anything for instance if you break up or if you want to run for ms. america or something)
You never know.. those things always come back to haunt you..
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February 7th, 2010 at 4:52 am
tell him, you were drunk, and why does he have to go on about it, its really annoying you, and tell him he wouldn’t have any chance to get something like that again if he doesn’t shut up
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February 7th, 2010 at 5:19 am
Just tell him exactly that.
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February 7th, 2010 at 5:45 am
explain to him you were intoxicated and tell him you are very embarassed by it and …no…you’re not comfortable sending more. ask him to not talk about anymore because it makes you uncomfortable. if he keeps it up i suggest you break up with him because it shows his character. good luck.
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February 7th, 2010 at 6:26 am
tell him he has to pay if he wants another (not money, but something else, like a year of romance, attention and passion, whatever) if he does, then, honey, he deserves more pics
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February 7th, 2010 at 6:51 am
you just gotta lay down the law and tell him straight: "okay, look. im not sending any more pictures. that was an accident last night. i was drunk. stop asking because its not happening." if you’d like to word it differently then be my guest, but something like that. if you do, i think he’ll catch on and get the picture.
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February 7th, 2010 at 7:20 am
I would let him know that’s not your usual way of acting and that you only did it because you weren’t in your right mind at the time lol..make sure you know that if he respects you enough he would understand that.. and if he doesn’t get the point after that and he keeps insiting you send pictures..then that part is up to you!
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February 7th, 2010 at 7:26 am
just say: what more? i was drunk last night.. and did something that i didn’t wanted to do…. maybe i’ll send you some more when i’m ready ok?
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February 7th, 2010 at 7:47 am
you should explain to him what happened. let him know that you were DRUNK, that you weren’t really thinking when you sent the picture and that it really shouldn’t mean anything. and then tell him that you won’t be sending anymore pictures. if he gets mad and annoying about it, just set him straight. let him know that you don’t really feel comfortable exposing yourself like that and that you didn’t purposely send him that picture. remind your boyfriend that you really like him and that you want this relationship to last, but if he is going to try to turn the relationship into something that you don’t want it to be, you would have to break up with him. i think you should talk it out with him and be completely honest. be diplomatic and kind, but make sure that you get your point across. good luck! i hope i helped (:
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February 7th, 2010 at 8:30 am
tell him he’s annoying you
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February 7th, 2010 at 8:52 am
1. Stop drinking and go to A.A. Your drunken actions have affected your life negatively. This is a major sign of alcoholism.
2. Don’t say anything to you boy friend yet. You need to be on good terms with him. Steal/take HIS cell phone/pc or whatever thing you used to send the picture and erase the picture you sent. Make sure he doesn’t have a copy of it other places, check the sent files, other media such as pc or camera, etc. Do a thorough clean-up job. Don’t piss him off because he may forward the picture all over the world.
3. Don’t get mad at him. Just wink and make his THINK more are coming. In the meantime make sure you have exhausted all sources of the picture. Erase it from your things too.
4. Do a gradual cool down in your relationship if that is what you really want. Remember, YOU have fired him up. Now you’ll have to play it smart and cool. I hope you get what I mean.
5. Don’t do this type of thing anymore. Not even with a husband.
6. Good luck to you.
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