Comments on: I sent my boyfriend a sexy picture when i was drunk, but now he would stop going on about it?

By: Alea S

Alea S — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 13:52:59 +0000

1. Stop drinking and go to A.A. Your drunken actions have affected your life negatively. This is a major sign of alcoholism.

2. Don’t say anything to you boy friend yet. You need to be on good terms with him. Steal/take HIS cell phone/pc or whatever thing you used to send the picture and erase the picture you sent. Make sure he doesn’t have a copy of it other places, check the sent files, other media such as pc or camera, etc. Do a thorough clean-up job. Don’t piss him off because he may forward the picture all over the world.

3. Don’t get mad at him. Just wink and make his THINK more are coming. In the meantime make sure you have exhausted all sources of the picture. Erase it from your things too.

4. Do a gradual cool down in your relationship if that is what you really want. Remember, YOU have fired him up. Now you’ll have to play it smart and cool. I hope you get what I mean.

5. Don’t do this type of thing anymore. Not even with a husband.

6. Good luck to you.
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By: WTF

WTF — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 13:30:59 +0000

tell him he's annoying you
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By: Alexa C

Alexa C — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 12:47:59 +0000

you should explain to him what happened. let him know that you were DRUNK, that you weren’t really thinking when you sent the picture and that it really shouldn’t mean anything. and then tell him that you won’t be sending anymore pictures. if he gets mad and annoying about it, just set him straight. let him know that you don’t really feel comfortable exposing yourself like that and that you didn’t purposely send him that picture. remind your boyfriend that you really like him and that you want this relationship to last, but if he is going to try to turn the relationship into something that you don’t want it to be, you would have to break up with him. i think you should talk it out with him and be completely honest. be diplomatic and kind, but make sure that you get your point across. good luck! i hope i helped (:
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By: fluffy puppy

fluffy puppy — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 12:26:59 +0000

just say: what more? i was drunk last night.. and did something that i didn’t wanted to do…. maybe i’ll send you some more when i’m ready ok?
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By: Brittany E

Brittany E — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 12:20:59 +0000

I would let him know that's not your usual way of acting and that you only did it because you weren't in your right mind at the time lol..make sure you know that if he respects you enough he would understand that.. and if he doesn't get the point after that and he keeps insiting you send pictures..then that part is up to you!
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By: know it all

know it all — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 11:51:59 +0000

you just gotta lay down the law and tell him straight: "okay, look. im not sending any more pictures. that was an accident last night. i was drunk. stop asking because its not happening." if you'd like to word it differently then be my guest, but something like that. if you do, i think he'll catch on and get the picture.
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By: Missy ~

Missy ~ — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 11:26:59 +0000

tell him he has to pay if he wants another (not money, but something else, like a year of romance, attention and passion, whatever) if he does, then, honey, he deserves more pics
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By: deepthinker

deepthinker — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 10:45:59 +0000

explain to him you were intoxicated and tell him you are very embarassed by it and …no…you’re not comfortable sending more. ask him to not talk about anymore because it makes you uncomfortable. if he keeps it up i suggest you break up with him because it shows his character. good luck.
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By: Charlie934eva

Charlie934eva — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 10:19:59 +0000

Just tell him exactly that.
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By: Smiles M

Smiles M — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 09:52:59 +0000

tell him, you were drunk, and why does he have to go on about it, its really annoying you, and tell him he wouldn't have any chance to get something like that again if he doesn't shut up
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