I don’t know what to do. Jealous I guess? Insecure. She’s still in the picture, they had a THING.?
Posted on December 21st, 2009 by admin
I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for 6 months. And ever since we started dating this girl who shared a ‘thing’ with him over last summer is always like in my vision.
He says they don’t talk anymore, and nothing happened, they just talked online for a while, whilst she was in florida, and she sent him pics of her in a bra and undies, and she’s got massive tits, but not that good of a body. It’s oddly shaped.
He’s told me he loves my body, thinks is very attractive, but I am a VERY insecure person, i mean there are things about my body I do like, but c’mon, he’s a boobs guy and she’s got huge ones, and she’s like always happy and seems drama free, and like I’m not piece of cake to handle.. because of my insecurities.
But still I can’t get the fact they had a thing once. And I trust him, I just don’t know her, nor trust her, so I don’t know if they still talk and such like I guess behind my back.. She has a boyfriend but no one thinks she really likes him, they think she’s just using him.
How do I just not let it get to me anymore? How do I just pretty much say ’screw you!’ to her and just not let it bother me?
Please help me
It sounds like she is stalking you and your bf and waiting for you to crack and break up with him so she can be there to help him get over it. It is a mind game and you have fallen for it.
Talk to your bf and ask him why he thinks she is always around where the two of you are. See what he says. If he talks seriously to you about it, then he is serious about you and you need not fear. If he disregards your feelings and says you are nuts, then he may not be serious. Even though you are high maintenance with your insecurities and he knows it, he is still there with you, so that is a plus on his side.
I would not trust her either, she may still be trying to text him, even though your bf ignores the messages. If this is happening, he should tell you about it.
It is hard when you have an inferiority complex to just say screw you to her and forget about her, so work on really trying to believe that you
are the girl that your bf wants to be with. or else he may give up on you and find someone who does believe him.
December 21st, 2009 at 10:21 pm
It sounds like she is stalking you and your bf and waiting for you to crack and break up with him so she can be there to help him get over it. It is a mind game and you have fallen for it.
Talk to your bf and ask him why he thinks she is always around where the two of you are. See what he says. If he talks seriously to you about it, then he is serious about you and you need not fear. If he disregards your feelings and says you are nuts, then he may not be serious. Even though you are high maintenance with your insecurities and he knows it, he is still there with you, so that is a plus on his side.
I would not trust her either, she may still be trying to text him, even though your bf ignores the messages. If this is happening, he should tell you about it.
It is hard when you have an inferiority complex to just say screw you to her and forget about her, so work on really trying to believe that you
are the girl that your bf wants to be with. or else he may give up on you and find someone who does believe him.
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