I will give alway 10 points with the best answer?
Posted on January 26th, 2010 by admin
well my babyfather told me he dont want me he want to be with other people so i said fine i been trying to move on from this realtionship but he is contacting me saying how my pussy doing and how is his daughter doing i am not getting why he wont leave me and his daughter alone. But he told me he will never leave us alone i am trying to find someonelse but he trying to still be in the picture and i want to know why is he contacting me when he said he dont want us anymore???
your baby father just sounds like he wants to have control over whats going on your side and his.when the truth is, it aint none of his business. if he said he dont want nothin to do with you or your daughter, he needs to make up his mind before you make it up for him.before you take him to court and get child support established(if you havent already) and let him know that his ignorance isnt needed, if he wants to act like that, and that his money will suffice.
you arent some kind of game from the dollar store that he can just play with, and disrespect you one minute and then the next try and be all in your face.when will some of these men learn?it sounds to me like he wants to be able to go out and do whatever he wants to do, but keep a short leash on you as well, find another MAN that is willing to step up to the plate, and be there all the time, not just when he gets ready, you’ll be a lot better off my sister.
January 26th, 2010 at 9:42 am
Tell him you are going to get a restraining order. Tell him to go jump off a cliff and die. Sounds like a dick.
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January 26th, 2010 at 10:10 am
because its his daughter
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January 26th, 2010 at 10:36 am
Good for you for moving on. Don’t be with a guy who doesn’t want to be with you.
However, he has rights to see the child. Having a child with someone is a serious commitment. He will be in your life until the child turns 18. He should be paying you child support too.
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January 26th, 2010 at 10:51 am
you give away 10 points anyway for the best answer you didnt need to pose your question as that.
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January 26th, 2010 at 11:31 am
3 words….. Jerry Springer Show.
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January 26th, 2010 at 12:14 pm
He has a daughter. He will always be part of your life.
This is why it’s best to have children with somebody who loves you enough to marry you and make sure they treat you right first.
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January 26th, 2010 at 1:01 pm
well all he wants is his baby thats y he is contacting u
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January 26th, 2010 at 1:49 pm
Sounds like he either cares a lot about you and his daughter but don’t want to be with you romantically OR he is confused and doesn’t even know what he wants.
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January 26th, 2010 at 1:59 pm
Try to get along with him but if you dont keep trying someone else.
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January 26th, 2010 at 2:28 pm
Just because he doesn’t want you, doesn’t mean he is going to let someone else have you.
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January 26th, 2010 at 3:17 pm
because he is controlling and possesive, using his kid as an excuse to get back at you. its one rule for him and a different rule for you, thats not right
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January 26th, 2010 at 3:40 pm
He still hears your name when the wind blows through his ears.
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January 26th, 2010 at 4:02 pm
Tell him it was his decision to end the relationship and that your trying to move on and you would appreciate it if he stops calling you.
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January 26th, 2010 at 4:49 pm
because he wants his cake and he wants to eat it too,its a control issue,don’t let that b*sterd controle you girl!
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January 26th, 2010 at 5:11 pm
How can you give some one points?
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January 26th, 2010 at 5:21 pm
maybe ha just loves you SO much he cant afford to give you up…he may want to believe he hates you…but inside i cam bet he really likes you…
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January 26th, 2010 at 5:51 pm
Have you told him that you want him to be left alone? If so, this would be considered harassment, and if it gets worse, get a restraining order. It sounds like he’s trying to control you, and if you let that overrun your life, you aren’t going to be happy, nor will your child. You have to put the interests of your child first.
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January 26th, 2010 at 6:11 pm
I think hes just jealous.
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January 26th, 2010 at 6:36 pm
It sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it too so to speak. He wants to be able to see other people but doesn’t want you to be able to move on from him so he is constantly calling you to check up on you. He might not actually want to be with you but at the same time he doesn’t want anyone else to be with you either. So by calling all the time he is preventing you from moving on with your life.
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January 26th, 2010 at 7:19 pm
Hit him up for child support… Follow thru with it, and when he misses just one time, have him locked up! He will go so far away that you will have a better chance running into Osama!
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January 26th, 2010 at 7:54 pm
tell him that he said it was done block his number and then get on with your life
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January 26th, 2010 at 8:33 pm
He regrets loosing you, and he is lonely, and doesn’t want anyone else to have you. He is doing all the negative things that men do in this situation. Ask him to email you rather than call if he needs something. It sounds like you may want him back too. Do what you want. Don’t let your friends or family map out your life for you. You will learn whether it is righ or wrong, easy or too hard… Best of Wishes
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January 26th, 2010 at 8:49 pm
well he keeps on contacting you because he misses you but just dosent want to admit it and he says he dosent want you anymore becuase he just feels like he should be the man of the house and he should be responsible
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January 26th, 2010 at 9:15 pm
This guys messed up, yeah if he ran out of your life then he’s got no right to be affecting your relationships with others, Its ok that he calls and asks for his daughter but as for him to still be after you thats not right, try calling the cops on this dude, or some relative and tell him you need help with this guy, oh and becareful with him he might hurt or your baby, you could also move away from him!
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January 26th, 2010 at 10:04 pm
MAYBE HE STILL WANTS TO BE HIS DAUGHTERS FATHER!YOU NEED TO LET THIS HAPPEN ! PUT YOUR OWN FEELINGS ASIDE FOR YOUR DAUGHTER!
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January 26th, 2010 at 10:28 pm
Was he mad when he said that?? Maybe he didn’t mean it. I think he still has a right to call and check on his daughter but for you move on. Maybe then he will get the hint. When he does contact you tell him anything he wants about his daughter but when he asks you something tell him not to worry about you.
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January 26th, 2010 at 11:08 pm
He probably feels that’s his way of being responsible. If he never contacted you , he would feel like a bad dad. Now he can say he talks to you- It makes him feel less guilty.
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January 26th, 2010 at 11:27 pm
1. He wants to see his child
2. He wants to have power over you
3. there is nothing else in his life he can control without you.
You should file a custody, visitation, and child support petition with the court in your county. In court, his purpose in your and his child’s life will be established and you will feel better about why he is contacting you when he does.
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January 27th, 2010 at 12:12 am
If you really don’t want him anymore, get a restraining order from the courts. If he is not listed on the birth certificate it will be real easy, if he is listed as the father, you can still get one because he is harrassing you.
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January 27th, 2010 at 12:45 am
screw him!!!! you need a man who can BE a man. If he dont want you he is a coward and isnt ready for a kid. you need a man who will care and prtect you and your baby. Move on and forget about him. You have a baby you need to worry about. Get a man who can love you and your child.
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January 27th, 2010 at 1:35 am
he don`t want you with anyone but it`s alright for him to see other people. you need to tell him to get out of your life so you can find someone that will ;Love you and the baby ,take care of you both.
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January 27th, 2010 at 2:07 am
that’s what happens when kids have babies. You don’t understand what can happen when it doesn’t work out. Grow up, you made the decision to have a child with a man who you are not married to.
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January 27th, 2010 at 2:27 am
He sounds like a real loser for dissing his baby like that, and his actions could be one of two things:
1) He felt he had to ditch you for whatever reason, but there is enough of a real man in there that he feels lingering guilt about treating you so badly.
2) He’s a total loser and is finding that as time goes on, more and more girls are catching on to him, so he wants his ’stuff’ back. I am not saying this is cool or anything, but if this is the type of guy he is, he likely sees you and the kid as his ’stuff’ and thinks he is entitled to you.
If the answer is number 1 and you feel like it, it might be worth checking out. If it’s number 2, he’s a jerk. Start writing down the stuff he says and does in case he tries to do an legal crap to get custody or rights with your kid.
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January 27th, 2010 at 2:44 am
i think the best to person to ask this question to would be him! he is obviously not very mature and it sounds as though he is playing mind games with you. perhaps you could tell him that you have found someone else and you want to move on.
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January 27th, 2010 at 3:10 am
He is still contacting you because he wants to feel like he has somekinda control over you still. He wants to have everything his way. If I were you I’d get child support for the baby and when the baby is old enough, she can decide for herself if she wants to be in anykinda relationship with her deadbeat dad. Find yourself a man that will love you and the baby and treat you the way you deserve to be! I’d cut off contact with him, he’s not good enough for you or the baby!
My husband said that maybe he don’t like you but he’s still interested in the baby. But that he should still be paying child support.
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January 27th, 2010 at 3:15 am
blah blah blah well at least i got 2 pts. thanks
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