In romantic relationships, why does the "Nice Guy always finish last"?
Posted on February 28th, 2010 by admin
Why do the really good looking women always pick the nice guy last and think that all men just want them for pussy?
When that isn’t so much of the nice guy’s intention? What is it that the good looking hotass girl has up her sleeve that she’s scared of telling the truth on? What does she get some sick satisfaction out of kicking men in the ass and turning them down, out of fear that she’s another target for a good one on one? And then gets even more thrills when she talks to her girlfriends about how great she scored at treating the nice guy like a piece of crap? Perhaps she fall in love with the nice guy if he did to her everything that I just mentioned? So she could see how it feels? If she doesn’t like to be treated like a one night stand, then WHAT IN GODS NAME GIVES HER THE RIGHT, TO BREAK THE HEART OF A NICE GUY WHO HAS NO INTENTION OF FUCKING HER PUSSY OUT AND THEN LEAVING HER IN MISERY? IT’S JUST THAT WHAT’S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?!!
Actually, there’s a lot wrong with this picture. The truth is..nice guys don’t always finish last.
However, guys are naturally the pursuers, and girls are generally the ones being pursued. Nice guys are usually too shy to be assertive and ask a girl out or flirt or let her know he’s attracted to her, whereas a pushy guy has no problem with it. If you are a nice guy, you should try mustering up some confidence, and asking a girl out.
But then you have to remember that not all "good looking hotass girls" are nice anyway. And if that’s all you are looking for in a girl, I sort of question whether you are, in fact, genuinely a nice guy.
March 1st, 2010 at 1:10 am
AMEN!
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March 1st, 2010 at 1:34 am
DUDE U A STALKER
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March 1st, 2010 at 2:13 am
Well I can tell you I don’t like guys who act like a bigger girl than I do.???
http://groups.myspace.com/closetednerd
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March 1st, 2010 at 2:58 am
girls like bad guys… they fantasize about them, it turns them on. nice guys usually dont have the confidence that the assholes do… if you want a girl… be confident, you dont relaly have anything to lose
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March 1st, 2010 at 3:39 am
Sometimes it takes girls to figure out that the nice is the better choice. We have to learn they most guys are jerks, expect for you.
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March 1st, 2010 at 4:23 am
That is true. I think you have to find a balance of treating them like a "little" girl and the love of your life. Some women want to be treated badly. I don’t know why.. But it’s true.
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March 1st, 2010 at 4:33 am
Girls like exciting guys. Many exciting guys are jerks. Nice guys are boring. That’s all there is to it. Yeah, it sucks.
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March 1st, 2010 at 4:44 am
i have no idea what you have just said but the work seems long so im just going to say hell yea with that and use some trojans
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March 1st, 2010 at 5:32 am
Nice guys probably usually are lame and boring. They are constantly nagging the girl to make sure shes alright and all that shit and its probably annoying as hell. Bad guys dont exactly finish first cause they’re assholes and nobody likes them. U kinda gotta be in the middle.
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March 1st, 2010 at 5:37 am
Nice guys are boring to most girls but as you get older girls change and want a nice guy to settle down with
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March 1st, 2010 at 5:47 am
Because some of the members of my species are just stupid. Choose carefully next time, and try not to fall in love too fast.
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March 1st, 2010 at 6:14 am
easy- stress realated sex, leads to the lady snapping on the nice guy.
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March 1st, 2010 at 6:48 am
You sound like you weren’t quite treated well by a woman. Sorry to hear that.
But, I don’t know. The no-so-nice guys are just a challenge and hopefully you can change them. It takes a while to figure out that it’s the nice guy that you wanted in the first place. It might happen a few years down the line, but most figure it out. Keep your head up and keep looking.
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March 1st, 2010 at 7:04 am
First of all in my experience girls don’t pick the nice guy last.. they don’t pick them at all. They go for Drama and they go for heartache even though that’s all they say they do not want in a relationship.. Why? Well i think it’s to make them feel alive. If they’re not crying or upset that the guy they chose was an asshole and why can’t she find a good guy bla bla.. what would they do? say wow i found a good guy? lol ok then.. Also goes back to girls want what they can’t have, and they can have a nice guy.. but they can’t turn an asshole into a pussy.. or something like that..
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Experience.. and last part was from Team America…
March 1st, 2010 at 7:37 am
maybe the nice thing is to slow expecially if she is a fast girl. nice guys finish last because they dont step up to the plate and take what they want.
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March 1st, 2010 at 8:07 am
They can’t make up their minds, they say they want someone who treats them well, respects them, care for them and love them but, they still go for the ones who treat them like crap and are the ‘bad-ass’ guys
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March 1st, 2010 at 8:36 am
women definately are b*tches, especially those who do that.
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March 1st, 2010 at 9:16 am
wow, what?
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March 1st, 2010 at 9:43 am
i honestly do not know how everyone failed on this one…most guys are raised, still, to treat females as property, where as i think of them as superiors…any game of cards with same ages proves this…
i guess its cuz we have limits…even though we are better in all ways to the ‘douche’ males
to quote a movie;
i blame society
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March 1st, 2010 at 9:57 am
Wow that was deep and staight from the heart and id have 2 say its because they only think about te bad guys and how much they want 2 hurt them that the good guys cant b trusted enuff….
I’d feel like if i was in that situation… that i wouldnt deserve it so i would have 2 cause some1 else pain and not just me
Did that help @ all Its not them that they dont like… its themselves
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March 1st, 2010 at 10:07 am
And I quote, "No more Mr. Nice Guy." I used to be the nice guy and got trampled over by bitches, so I became an asshole and now I get plenty of attention from those hot ass girls. But, what you have to think about is if that’s what you really want? Once you do that, it becomes a lot harder to find a nice girl to settle down with. So ask yourself, do I really want the hot ass girls, or would a cute nice girl be better???? If so, then the only advice I can give you is be patient and forget about the 10’s, go after some 7’s or 8’s, and maybe you’ll catch a good one….
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March 1st, 2010 at 10:27 am
YOU,thats what is wrong wth this picture.you’re pissed off cos some girl dumps you and now you’re mad with the whole world?you don’t sound like a nice guy at all the way you write this question.you’ve got to learn self control dude,when you do you’ll have different perception of women in general.
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March 1st, 2010 at 10:38 am
Actually, there’s a lot wrong with this picture. The truth is..nice guys don’t always finish last.
However, guys are naturally the pursuers, and girls are generally the ones being pursued. Nice guys are usually too shy to be assertive and ask a girl out or flirt or let her know he’s attracted to her, whereas a pushy guy has no problem with it. If you are a nice guy, you should try mustering up some confidence, and asking a girl out.
But then you have to remember that not all "good looking hotass girls" are nice anyway. And if that’s all you are looking for in a girl, I sort of question whether you are, in fact, genuinely a nice guy.
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March 1st, 2010 at 11:08 am
I get the impression you have an issue here.
Girls you like want to be FUCKED by the nastiest, biggest, strongest, best FUCKER there is.
Full stop, that’s it.Let’s face it, you wanna be in the sack with the fittest, hottest, FUCKABLE, babe in town.
Go on, you know deep down you do.
Leave it for now mate, when you all grow up the playing field will be a lot more even, and you will almost certainly get what you want then.
In the mean time, chill.
Just chill.
Happy days ahead.
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