please someone tell me how do i get out of a relationship that is going nowhere?
Posted on February 22nd, 2010 by admin
i am 30 years old.I have been in a relationship with a man that is 9 years my elder. I pay all the bills.i do not give him any pussy.i even stay away from my own house days at a time. but for some reason he will not leave. i tell him day in and day out that i am not inlove with him ,ask him to leave constantly ,i show No love at all .but he still does not get the picture. i tell/told him there is some one else. He just will not leave/ me alone. i hve another friend .and he knows everything that is going on . and he is semi understanding but is also getting tired of the situation.not to the point where he wants to leave to the point where he wants to put his hands on the man . etc. there is more to this story if you are willing please contact me to help me try to figure this out. don’t say call the police that has already been done .I NEED HELP.ANSWERS
You need to throw all his shit out on the lawn and get a restraining order out on him. Change the locks on your doors. He sounds like a real dead beat. You have to be strong and not let him into your life. You can’t be driven out of your own house. That is wrong.
February 22nd, 2010 at 6:41 pm
You should get pregnant, it’ll improve your live
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February 22nd, 2010 at 7:08 pm
I know the feeling. My current relationiship is going nowhere, but at least I thought I loved her.
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February 22nd, 2010 at 7:54 pm
You need to throw all his shit out on the lawn and get a restraining order out on him. Change the locks on your doors. He sounds like a real dead beat. You have to be strong and not let him into your life. You can’t be driven out of your own house. That is wrong.
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February 22nd, 2010 at 8:26 pm
I think you two should have a talk. It seems as you are doing ALL the work around the house. A woman shouldnt be scared to go home. Just tell your boyfriend that your not into the relationship as much as he may think you are. Tell him he should move on & find a woman his age. Or you could just decide to pack your things find an afordable place just for you and leave without him knowing. It could work. Good luck!
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February 22nd, 2010 at 8:47 pm
I am kind off in the same situation just that my boyfriend doesn’t work and that’s what keep me there he has no money and no where to live, but if he had a job what i would save some money go get a little apartment without him know nothing and one day when he was gone pack as much s*** that you can and never look back. You deserve to be happy . think about it like this do your real want to live your life with fear. Good luck.
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