Question about guys and ‘dirty comments’?
Posted on March 2nd, 2010 by admin
I like dirty jokes like the rest of them. I was talking to this single dad. We got along great. Today he made a dirty comment about a picture of me holding a baby kitten or ‘pussy-cat’. I told him that wasn’t funny to me. Later on that day he asked about my baby’s dad and I said I didnt’ want to tell just yet. He started making joking around ‘trying to guess’… which is fine until I felt his comments were getting a little crude for my taste. I didnt’ respond and he asked why I wasn’t saying anything. I said that I had no response to that last comment. He started making it my fault. ‘I was not open minded’. I am ‘too serious’. I am, I forget the other one. I said that he was rude and now trying to turn it into my fault and walked away. The end. I get home to have an email from him saying that I have baggage and am too serious for him. I feel I escaped someone who blames people instead of just saying ‘oh, I’m sorry.’ I was glad to be rid of him. Am I wrong? Is he right?
if I had offended someone, I would just say ‘oh sorry, it was unintentional’. Whether I think it is silly or not. I would not blame them and say mean things. I would rather respect their feelings rather than deflect and be defensive.
I totally agree with you on this one. He seems like someone that refuses to take responsibility for anything. Whether he is just a friend or a potential partner my advice would be to keep your distance; they say a true friend is someone that accepts you for who you are – he does not fall into this category!
Stay true to yourself and don’t let anyone put you down.
March 2nd, 2010 at 11:43 pm
no, you did the right thing. Anyone who will make fun of your childs father with crude comments is not a nice person
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March 2nd, 2010 at 11:49 pm
Why are you talking to a person like that? Don’t see him again. There are better guys out there.
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March 3rd, 2010 at 12:14 am
I totally agree with you on this one. He seems like someone that refuses to take responsibility for anything. Whether he is just a friend or a potential partner my advice would be to keep your distance; they say a true friend is someone that accepts you for who you are – he does not fall into this category!
Stay true to yourself and don’t let anyone put you down.
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